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Men and Women – what a man needs

From John Gray, Ph.D.’s book, Woman and Men: Mars and Venus in Love:

A man needs to be encouraged by a woman.

  • If a woman tries to improve/help a man (or correct, control, or criticize him) he feels unloved because he believes she doesn’t trust him to get it.
  • Women must give trust, not advice.
  • If a man does not feel loved just the way he is, he will repeat the behavior that is not being accepted.

Women should remember to

  • Not ask too many questions when he is upset.
  • ignore that he is upset unless he wants to talk about it.
  • Give up trying to improve him in any way.
  • Trust him to grow on his own.
  • Not offer unsolicited advice.
  • Practice patience (and trust that he will learn on his own).
  • Practice forgiveness.
  • Practice showing him he doesn’t have to be perfect to deserve your love.

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For a list of Sheila’s books, check out http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B003HWM3PI

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Author:

Dr. Sheila Embry is a govie, author, pracademician, sister, aunt, cousin, and friend who loves to read, write, think, and laugh. Many of her blog postings are summaries or excerpts of books that she read and wants to share to encourage others. An author with more than 25 years experience within the legislative and executive branches of the U. S. federal government holding 3 accredited degrees: Doctor of Management in Organizational Leadership, Master of Arts in Human Resources Development, and Baccalaureate of Business Administration, she believes in continuing learning both on and off the job. She has been recognized with multiple professional and writing awards for her peer-reviewed, publications. Click the bibliography page above for a listing of all the publications.

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