Become an instrument of thy peace. Wherever you go, others will experience the glow of God consciousness in you. Disharmony and dishonor and all manner of problems will not flourish in your presence. Not being offended is your way of saying I am in control of how I feel and I am going to be peaceful no matter what I observe. If you can tame your ego, you can be a compassionate being.
Anytime you’re filled with resentment, your turning control of your emotion life over to others to manipulate. Instead fill yourself with love, peace, joy, forgiveness. Be kind rather than be right.
Releasing guilt is like removing a large boulder from your shoulder. Apathetic thoughts create despair. They are the thoughts that keep you from being engaged in life. Apathy is self-pity. If you love the person, you are not alone. You have your own mind, and limited potential. Wisdom is avoiding all thoughts that weaken you. Authentic wisdom is the ability to monitor yourself at all times to determine your state of weakness or strength and shift those thoughts that weaken you.