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Continuous desire



It is painful to be suspended in unfulfilled desire,

Continually searching for satisfaction.

  • Chogyam Trungpa

Our desires are as natural as life itself. All of us have basic needs for food, shelter, protection, and closeness with others. Our desires are based in our need to survive, to succeed, and to satisfy ourselves, particularly in ways that give us comfort and pleasure. As we grow we learn that we can’t have everything we desire, but that doesn’t mean that we desire it less.

We learn that desiring helps us to improve lives. Desiring to get good grades teaches us self-discipline and self-control, which helps us as we grow. Civilization is based on people desiring to have things better than before. We call this progress. We are constantly reinforcing that love, attention, friendship, comfort, social status, and progress are all associated with the consumption of pleasures and the accumulation of things. Thus, we learn that comfort through eating, buying new clothes, toys, gadgets, etc. should consume so much of our life’s energy.

Meeting our basic needs is essential. The problem comes when we forever want reality to be just the way we want, always wanting it to be different than it is right now. As Buddha stated, the root of human dissatisfaction and suffering is endless desiring.

Cite: Losing the Weight of the World: A Spiritual Diet to Nourish the Soul by Jonathan Kramer, and Diane Dunaway Kramer





Dr. Sheila Embry is a govie, author, pracademician, sister, aunt, cousin, and friend who loves to read, write, think, and laugh. Many of her blog postings are summaries or excerpts of books that she read and wants to share to encourage others. An author with more than 25 years experience within the legislative and executive branches of the U. S. federal government holding 3 accredited degrees: Doctor of Management in Organizational Leadership, Master of Arts in Human Resources Development, and Baccalaureate of Business Administration, she believes in continuing learning both on and off the job. She has been recognized with multiple professional and writing awards for her peer-reviewed, publications. Click the bibliography page above for a listing of all the publications.

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