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 15 Relationship Ifs


If a man:

  1. Is into you, nothing can keep him away. If he isn’t, nothing can make him stay.
  2. Can control you, he will leave you.
  3. Doesn’t trust you, he doesn’t trust himself.
  4. Accuses you of sleeping around, he is sleeping around.
  5. Doesn’t treat his mother well, he will not treat you well.
  6. Treats service people poorly, he will treat you poorly too.
  7. Doesn’t want you to meet his family, see it as the red flag it is.
  8. Says he has never been in love, believe him and move on.
  9. Disappears for days or weeks at a time then calls you for a hook up, he doesn’t want or respect you. He is dissing you.
  10. Says you are not his type or you are too good for him, believe him and move on.
  11. Says he is finding himself, let him go to find himself.
  12. Is a cheater, let him go.
  13. Is unreliable, let him go.
  14. Says he is not ready to commit, he means he is not ready to commit to you. Move on.
  15. Is jealous, don’t confuse it for caring.




Dr. Sheila Embry is a govie, author, pracademician, sister, aunt, cousin, and friend who loves to read, write, think, and laugh. Many of her blog postings are summaries or excerpts of books that she read and wants to share to encourage others. An author with more than 25 years experience within the legislative and executive branches of the U. S. federal government holding 3 accredited degrees: Doctor of Management in Organizational Leadership, Master of Arts in Human Resources Development, and Baccalaureate of Business Administration, she believes in continuing learning both on and off the job. She has been recognized with multiple professional and writing awards for her peer-reviewed, publications. Click the bibliography page above for a listing of all the publications.

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